I have forgiven those who once hurt me.
We’ve all been hurt by another person at some point or another – we were treated badly, trust was broken, hearts were hurt. And while this pain is normal, sometimes that pain lingers for too long. We relive the pain over and over, letting them live rent-free in our head and we have a hard time
letting go.
Grudges are a waste of perfect happiness, it causes us to miss out on the beauty of life as it happens. To forgive is to set a prisoner free and discover the prisoner was you.
Marc and Angel Hack Life (Words above from the awesome site to the left that my friend Anne introduced me to on her blog )
I AM ONE OF THOSE PEOPLE WHO TEND TO LIVE IN THE PAST. I RELIVE ALL THE GOOD AND ALL THE BAD ON A FREQUENT BASIS. I STRUGGLE TO LET GO OF MY PAST MISTAKES AND OTHERS PAST MISTAKES. THE WORDS ABOVE ARE SO TRUE ,THAT I KEEP MYSELF A PRISONER THAT WAY. MY GRUDGES AND MY OWN MISTAKES KEEP ME FROM LIVING MY LIFE TO THE FULLEST AND CAN RUIN A PERFECTLY GOOD PRECIOUS DAY BY ME DWELLING IN DAYS FOREVER GONE .
MY GOAL THIS YEAR IS TO GET A GRIP ON THIS BAD HABIT!!!!
SOME HOW I FIND IT EASIER TO FORGIVE OTHERS FOR THEIR MISTAKES THEN TO FORGIVE MYSELF FOR THE ONES IVE MADE.
WE ALLLLLLLL HAVE TO REALIZE WE ARE ALLLLLLL JUST HUMAN BEINGS WHO WILLLLLLL MAKE MISTAKES FROM TIME TO TIME. SOME SMALL ,SOME DOOZEYS BUT I GUESS AS LONG AS WE LEARN FROM THEM AND CAN MAKE OURSELVES LET THEM GO AND MOVE ON ,WE THEN WILL BECOME BETTER PEOPLE ,STRONGER PEOPLE INSTEAD OF PRISONERS OF HATE AND SELF LOATHING. AMEN :},LOL